Tuesday, May 10, 2011

a catch-up post!

Easter 2011 Maddie & Jilly had fun playing with colored bubbles at Grandpa & Grandma Allred's Easter dinner
Kylie & Maddie at Nany & Ba's Easter dinner, we had on Good Friday this year
The annual Mardon Easter Egg hunt: cousins Kylie, Jett, Cade, Jace & Maddie
And now onto the kids...make sure to read the bottom of this post for some exciting news!
JACE:
He's our busy 1st grader. Finished basketball in February, what a fun season with lots of friends and my coach from high school spear-headed a bunch of 1st grade boys. It was so fun to watch, those boys really showed some improvement over the season. His claim to fame lately has been his joke telling ability...he performed (quite well for that matter) at the school's talent show in February, telling a few jokes to a crowd of 700! He moved onto soccer and we watched his games from our car since our weather this spring has been so crummy! Soon, he'll be playing baseball, which is his favorite sport. He's doing well in school, latest report card had us grinning from ear to ear and he earned himself a book at the book fair for his hard work, choosing "Predator Showdown". He and Cade have loved looking at that book, trying to figure out which animal claims victory over another. They sleep together every night, not in their own beds which are in the same room, but in our guest room. I like it so I don't mind; it won't be long that they'll want to share the same bed. Someday they'll use their cute bedroom. They'd rather sleep in the mix-n-match, undecorated, spare bedroom. Jace is a great big brother, constantly coming up with games and things to play for he and Cade, always including little sis in the mix, even if she's not up to par with what they're playing. He and Caden loved going down to the ranch for branding this year, they even got to ride a couple of calves. He's growing up too quickly!CADEN:
Just finished preschool! He's officially graduated and registered for Kindergarten this fall. I loved teaching Cade in preschool this year. He is a very bright boy and quite the perfectionist. Artsy too. He's constantly drawing pictures, using up stacks of sticky notes while sticking them all over the house. Cade is our kid that never says "I'm bored." He finds things to do, makes plenty of messes, and is so creative in his play. Being the middle child, he plays great with kids but unusually well on his own too. He plays on his terms, so I'm sure that's why he's quite good at self-play. We've been so impressed with how much he loves and cares for Maddie. He talks to her in the sweetest tone, getting her toys, tries to lift her onto her swing outside, helps carry her up the stairs. She's a lucky girl to have Cade as a playmate and protector these days, boy is she going to miss him when he's off to school this fall. He's enjoyed riding a few times this year, only on his favorite horse, "Sparky Boy". We enjoyed a fun spring break horse back riding excursion with Derek & Carly's family on the ranch. Cade was a pro. Oh, and I must mention how tough he is...just had his shots for Kindergarten, 4 of them in all and he didn't cry, not even one tear. Also had two warts frozen off recently and never even blinked. Yes, he's our superboy and determined to be the tough guy.
MADDIE:
Prefers to not be called "Maddie Moomer" anymore. She corrects us if we say this by saying, "my name isn't Moomer, it's Maddie Grace Allred!" She's really a talker, loves watching herself in the reflection of the oven or dryer, chatting up a storm as she brushes her hair from her face and smiles. She loves to help me...especially with dishes. Water, bubbles anyone? I'm yet to master how to incorporate her help, while still getting my chores done and without the watery mess. She loves packing around a stuffed animal or baby, rocking them in her rocking chair, patting and singing to them. She discovered that her baby doll's eyes open and close, and whoa, "Molly her baby" took a lot of naps yesterday. Maddie loves to take baths, has constantly had rashes this winter; her recent rash was ring worm, which we have no idea where she got it from. She and Caden are just getting over a lovely case of pink eye too. Her nose has been runny most of the winter/spring and she's been on a couple of rounds of antibiotics from ear infections this late winter. She's currently healthy (knock on wood) and on "house arrest" now, not venturing out in public or in any groups of people for that matter, so we're keeping busy at home with projects and play. We need to keep her healthy for surgery. She and I were recently baptized at our church, First Presbyterian, the week after Easter. It was such a wonderful evening and having this sacred experience with her will always be a special memory for me. She was precious and my heart was so full.
and our big news is...WE'RE EXPECTING!!! I'm 14 weeks along and baby is due Nov. 6th, though with the c-section, looks like sometime around Halloween. We're all very excited!

Saturday, April 23, 2011

grace

I never thought we'd be where we are now when we took this picture 3 years ago, Easter Sunday 2008. Our first picture as a family of five. Maddie was 3 days post-op from her first open heart surgery and only 10 days old. We're in the Cardiac Intensive Care Unit, she was still on the ventilator and really in a stand-still in her recovery. Though we have smiles on our faces, our hearts were torn that afternoon. I clearly remember attending the church service offered at Children's that morning and can visualize the other families in that little chapel filled with beautiful stained-glass windows. We all had one prayer in common though it was unspoken: healing for our sick child and God's grace on their life.

Our prayer of petition came true. She started to rally and we brought Maddie home just 1 week later. When I reflect on this journey, it really has been a good one for us. We've grown so much as individuals, in our marriage, as a family and especially in our faith. Standing by her bedside on this day I would have never imagined our lives feeling this normal and complete now. Though this was not the 'plan' we had for our daughter or our family, this plan has fit beautifully into our lives, simply because it was His. I loved our Palm Sunday message at church, especially our Pastor's definition of Grace. "God loves us so much that He gives us what we need, rather than what we deserve. This is grace." I'd never thought of it this way.

So my prayer on this Easter isn't much different than the one 3 years ago...for the healing, strength, and comfort for Maddie as her upcoming surgery is just 30 days away. Prayer for His grace on her life and our family's. She will once again be very sick after surgery and we will again, sit by her bedside; praying and waiting. We don't know what the Fontan will bring or how it will change our lives but we do know that we have a God who loved us enough to save us by sending His Son to die on a cross. Nails did not hold Him there...love did and three days later, He rose. What a miracle Easter is and we're thankful for the grace that only He can provide in our lives.

"Tis not that I did choose Thee,
For Lord, that could not be;
This heart would still refuse Thee,
Hadst Thou not chosen me...

My heart owns none before Thee,
For Thy rich grace I thrist;
This knowing, if I love Thee,
Thou must have loved me first."
-Josiah Conder, 1836

Friday, April 8, 2011

their favorite thing to do is...





play DRESS-UP! I never thought boys would enjoy dressing up so much...every penny spent on these costumes has been well worth it! They have great imaginations with some of the get-ups they come up with and have to always be in "character" with their play. It's entertaining to say the least! And I love that Maddie is starting to enjoy it just as much as her big brothers do!

Sunday, April 3, 2011

a new cousin

Grady Ray Stewart was born March 23. He's a big boy, weighing in at 9 lbs. 11 oz. and 21 inches! How did Maddie react to her new cousin? IN LOVE with him is an understatement! Let's just say "Baby Gady" has gotten lots of petting when Maddie's been around. Congrats Ryan, Jess & Kylie! We're so happy for you!

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

year of the Fontan

It seems as though this is the year of the Fontan...possibly because most of the heart friends we've met on-line are Maddie's age or just slightly older; therefore, we're hitting these staged surgeries at about the same time. The majority of the kids I've followed are single-ventricle kiddos like our daughter, having the same surgeries to fix their broken hearts as Maddie's. Many are enduring their Fontan surgery or post-op recovery as I type this. It's been helpful to read their blogs and I've been hopeful as most have done quite well! I've been encouraged, given a "good idea" of how it should all go, and learned ways of how to prepare myself and Maddie as we soon face her Fontan surgery.

Please say a prayer tonight for some of our special heart friends who are now post-Fontan! across the nation: Mary Clare, Colby, Aly, Parker, and Joshua. They are an inspiration. And speaking of inspiration, if you have a chance, listen to this new Rascal Flatts song, "I Won't Let Go" (it's at the bottom of our blog playlist, just scroll down) and grab some tissues if you're a heart mom!

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

birthday girl

Someone's sure proud of turning 3! We celebrated with family Sunday afternoon. She was grinning ear to ear when we sang Happy Birthday to her...dimples, dimples, sweet dimples.
Maddie sure loved having all of her cousins there to celebrate with her! She's a lucky girl to have so many!
She enjoyed (slowly) opening all of her gifts and has loved playing with everything since the big party. Makes being the mom easy after birthdays!
I made these "Martha Stewart Pom-Poms" which are much tougher to make than I thought they'd be! Very girlie though...
Her party was a Strawberry Shortcake theme with lots of pink!
I always love making party decorations...this was a fabric banner I sewed one afternoon, it was a very fun, easy project.
and the goodie bags
Happy 3rd Birthday Maddie Grace! What a big girl you've become :) We are so proud of you and love you very much!

Thursday, March 10, 2011

She's almost 3...

I can't believe it either. This little girl is 3 days away from 3! My baby! Where has the time gone? Here's what Little Miss loves, dislikes, and memories I want to keep about our sweet girl at almost age 3:

  • Maddie is a "mommy's girl" and I LOVE IT!

  • she loves watching tv: Dora the Explorer, Olivia, and Diego (every morning she has her same routine with "milkie" and her shows)

  • enjoys cooking with me and washing dishes...making a big watery mess really

  • often wraps & rewraps a baby doll or stuffed animal in a blanket and carries it around the house with her, usually just footsteps behind me

  • loves her big brothers and is quite funny with them, she definitely has a sense of humor

  • she's left-handed: draws circles, colors tiny little scribbles, and enjoys painting

  • if asked what her favorite color is, it's always pink

  • loves play-doh!

  • she likes our two cats and Sophie our dog (she calls her "Fosie", close enough) she's good at yelling at Fosie too. Not so great around horses or cows...too loud for her still

  • takes a long nap (around 2 hrs) and often a short cat-nap during play or in the car, just signs that she is needing her 3rd surgery. She can randomly fall asleep almost anywhere and she asks to lay down, as well as gladly goes to bed. "I tidered" are words that frequent her mouth throughout the day too and I find myself carrying her a lot

  • her favorite foods are: noodles, spaghetti, pizza, rice, salad, tacos, enchiladas, strawberries, pediasure/whole milk mixture, lemonade, ice water, waffles, ice cream, licorice--she's not very picky and is a good eater...weighing in at 32 lbs and 38" tall!

  • her current favorite toys are her baby stroller, shopping cart, strawberry shortcake mini-dolls, little leapfrog laptop, any princess paraphernalia, and my i-phone

  • she loves to play with her cousins and her best heart friend Teagie

  • she says a sweet prayer when I tuck her in at bedtime: "Dear Heavenie Fader, Tank you all my bessings, bess my heart, seep good no bad deams, I love you, Ameen" When we speak of Jesus, her face lights up and she yells out "Jesus! I love Jesus!" while quickly nodding her head and smiling. Yes, she does know and love Him...warms my heart

  • she often does "Nastics" (gymnastics) by twirling around, loping sideways, and bending over with one foot high up, very cute to watch and entertaining...she's watched cousins Savanna & Kaylee compete and is convinced that she does nastics as well!

  • she loves books, begging for "just one more" and holding her little blue finger up as a number one. It's tough to resist!

  • she is very chatty, sings a lot, and has a large vocabulary...she can be quite bossy and just recently started throwing fits when she doesn't get what she wants or things don't go by her plans

  • to sum up her personality, Maddie is sweet, quiet, thoughtful, silly and very tender. She's observant and always concerned when others are crying or hurt and shows lots of empathy and understanding in these situations. Maybe all of her pokes, dr visits and procedures have actually helped her in this area? She can be really whiny and grumpy when she's tired but can still be talked "into/out of" things, situations, etc. pretty easily

  • a perfect afternoon in Maddie's world is: swinging-- all. day. long.

  • and she still loves to cuddle. Mooms makes our day, every day.